Well the story goes as follows. Before we had children we became parents of our two dogs Ruby and Charlie. We pretty much lived and breathed them. Brought them with us everywhere, bragged about the new tricks they could do at cocktail parties, and brought them to the vet over every little thing. Then Anthony was born. I kid you not I came home from the hospital, opened up the door to our home, and suddenly realize that we had (gasp) two dogs. Before you have children you swear that you are kindred spirits, maybe even soul mates, and cannot even bare to think of your life without your dogs. As soon as you walk in the door with this teeny little baby it all changes. You soon realize that they are the last in command. They shed, drool, and everything you once thought was cute has become a little annoying. I did feel terrible for thinking these things but unfortunately each and everyone of my friends that has joined us in Parenting 101 realizes that there is some truth to these statements. Regardless you learn to have a new relationship with your "dogs" and still consider them family. Especially when you are faced with the possibility of losing one of them.
Charlie has been having seizures. I called the vet and they told me that they are quite common in dogs especially pugs. Not exactly what you want to hear. We can bring him in for blood work and medication may control it but there are no guarantees. Most the time it is an indicator that something more serious is coming to a head. Erik is beside himself. Anthony is frightened because he doesn't quite understand what Charlie is doing when he has a seizure (they can last up to 20 min). I am thoroughly confused as to what is in the best interest of Charlie's well being. Just a yucky situation and for the first time in a long time I do see him as one of my kids. Logically I know what may need to happen, emotionally I am not willing to face that until we try a few other (I am sure expensive) options.
Charlie is such a good sport, the other day I brought out Anthony's 1st Halloween costume to see if Alex can wear it this year. We decided to bust out our Halloween decorations a little early. Anyways, I could barely snap it around Alex's chubby thighs so I think it is safe to say we will be trying other options. But Charlie is such a trooper he became our magic pumpkin instead. He just goes with the flow, is so gentle with the boys, and a really good guy. Here's to you Charlie!
6 comments:
Don't forget Charlie loves his Grandma Vicki!!
faith
Sorry to hear about Mr. Charlie - always tough when things start to go south and tough decisions need to be made...thinking about you guys...Amy
I hope Tami's note to you helps. I am just reading this now. My sister had two pugs...sadly both tragically passed too soon. Thank goodness seizures had nothing to do with it. Hang in there!
Poor little Charlie...I can tell you I feel the EXACT same way about Lola. She was a source of such comfort during some really hard times for me but now I find myself constantly frustrated with this little hairball that barks and poops. Toughest of all is Lucy is so in love with her that I think my heart will break for her more than anything if something were to happen to Lola. Ill be sure to add Charlie to our nighttime prayers....
Love you.
Kris
Here's to Charlie and thunder thighs :-)))
So sorry to hear about Charlie, I can remember having some of those parties when our dogs were the center of attention and you used to bring them over everytime we hung out!
Kami
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